Forums > Living in Kunming > Laowai in Beijing trys to rape girl... Ha haa, I aren't embarrassed, you took what I said and blew it out of all proportion. I did the same. For example, I said laowai. We are laowai whether you like it or not. If you don't like the term, that's not my problem. Why you start attacking a person for using an innocent term that is in common usage in our environment is beyond me. Hell, you even used it yourself! I never said he should be treated different from Chinese. You suggested I said it.
You say:
"Foreigners" means people from over 100 countries, with nothing specific about them, or shared between them.
Which is incorrect. There is something shared between us: none of us are Chinese citizens. In my experience, many Chinese view us as one big group, not my fault, but that is reality.
Another example, I said "I hope he is locked up and the key thrown away." I did not say "I demand that he gets a worse punishment than Chinese people because he is lao wai". Who makes sloppy assumptions again? If you don't want to read what I said, or want to make assumptions about me, that also isn't my fault. You then take sentences I have written, take them out of context then using this as evidence, insinuate that I am simple.
I think the problem is that you started personally attacking me for something innocent. I don't know if you were having a bad day or something, but you force me constantly to defend myself against what you perceive as some amazing evil that I wrote. This in turn causes a tone for the thread which makes other people think it is OK to do the same. You are perpetuating flaming.
Think about it. All I posted was a news story about a lao wai tried to rape a girl and said it was bad. I posted it because it was pretty unusual to get that sort of activity on video and its pretty damning and also to highlight (on a foreigner website) the disdain I have for people who believe coming to another culture to abuse women is OK. As a result, you have since accused me of unskilled writing (we aren't exactly writing a newspaper here), sordidly questioned if I am a rapist myself, accused me of being racist and lastly of being unable to read.
Did your wife just leave you or something? Did your dog die? Did you stub your toe? You seem to have singled me out as a person to attack. Why? I don't know.
What I will say is this:
I am sorry if I offended anyone by this forum post. If I did so, it was completely not my intention. I am not racist or a supporter of rape whether it is committed by foreigners or whoever. If you were personally offended by any post of mine, please PM me and I will take you out for a beer and explain myself.
However if you are just angry at the world and are using this as an outlet to vent your anger you should probably realise this won't help. It will probably just make you more angry, bitter and stubborn.
China-Laos railway now connecting cities of Kunming and Vientiane
Posted byThis is awesome, will be great to be able to go to Luang Prabang and Vientiane via rail! Even if the route to Bangkok isn't finished, it's a small distance between Vientiane and Nong Khai in Thailand, so onward travel isn't too much of a problem.
Kunming Metro Line 4 and Line 6 (phase 2) officially in operation
Posted byIsn't map making illegal in China? Be careful Yereth!
Beleaguered Kunming metals tycoon missing
Posted byLet me take a guess:
Corrupt man assumes control of vast fortune. Man converts a great deal of the fortune to easily transportable assets (diamonds etc) and/or transfers money to foreign accounts in countries with zero corruption laws and/or launders said money through dodgy means. Man leaves country. Man pays foreign official to create identity with a tiny portion of said assets. Man can go anywhere without ramifications.
Only occurred about 1000 times before in China...
Exploring eastern Yunnan's Shizong County on foot
Posted byFinally another westerner has been to Shizong! My wife is from there, been to all these places (except the ridge!), not highly exciting, but interesting enough :-)
Good work!
Getting Away: Vietnam's Ha Long Bay
Posted byIf you:
1. Are an experienced kayaker/boaty
2. Are adventurous and in good shape (actively exercise, have stamina)
3. Would like a more free exploring experience
4. Have a decent phone with GPS that you can put markers on, know how to use and can waterproof
Then I recommend the following:
Catch the ferry to Cat Ba.
Stay on Cat Ba island in pretty much luxury
Go to the back of Cat Ba island early morning with a packed lunch and other energy goodies.
Rent a sea kayak (they have pretty decent ones for rent and rent for a whole day).
Go forth and explore.
You can see so much, up close and personal and can decide where you want to go and when. I spent 2 days doing this, going through caves to hidden grottoes, landing on amazing beaches, looking around the local water peoples villages... was gobsmackingly amazing and didn't have any tourist shite. Seriously recommend.