i would suggest buying those tv boxes if you can. im a dvd addict too but since the internet of residentials have gone faster and people tend to watch movies etc on their computer and tv because even internet companies provide those tv boxes now if you get internet. its so harder to get dvd anymore. last time i bought was at the north where if you see the walmart at bei jing road. you take a left or that intersection wherein you will end up going to yun nan yin xiang or the xiao qu where it was develop by yang li ping.
the dvd shop is in between that area, close actually to walmart. by walking you will pass the small creek or river and its on the right side.
in all honesty its tough, aside from looking at the motive and the culture. is it safe to say there are chinese women who actually look for love being first ( companion for life, both can exist, grow old ) compare to security?
i got a american friend who gf was ask by a stranger why is she with a foreigner and questions her nationalism etc.
i also got another friend who is the women who wed her husband which is only 4 years younger than her dad and they are in their forties that one time told me there is no use being handsome its all about the money, the fact that if she give birth to a boy she gets a money reward from the husband and his family.
aside from this, i cant push the blame on the man. i mean who doesnt want to be like or felt loved or worst just to have a good looking young woman beside you all the time.
@laotou, WTF are you saying. im amaze how well verse you are in this field its like you calculated the probability of what instances plus the situation to say what is effective or not
but the guy just wrote this as a form of warning while a lot of people jump in to either offer sympathy or maybe help in what way
of course we cant take away the people that aside giving advise what to do next or should do next time around there are those who are special, its like out of the world context wanna be heard types that needs a podium to a tedx type of presentation.
you my friend are amazing, my hands down to you. even to those who try to analyze further the situation to prove what? that your sense of gut tells you your right.
the person who started the thread is clear already on his purpose, the guy just want to do business in china. he learned his bloody lesson already and its like your 2 cents of advise make him feel better