"being told by some white guys that I shouldn't date Asians cause that's a disgrace for the white race. What makes it even funnier is that those guys were very keen on meeting a Chinese girlfriend. Luckily people like that are a minority among Kunming expats."
I've met a lot like these in Beijing. Most of them refrain from talking about this publicly. They would only discuss about it when only "their kind" is around. I was lucky enough to get to know several of those thanks to my mixed Chinese-White heritage. There are also some of those in Kunming, but they seem to be a lot less open about it. You will however get a few hints now and then of who fits in that group or supports it.
Concerning the fact that those guys would date women who are out of their race, it has been practiced for centuries. It often happened in plantations or during colonisation. They mostly have issues with men of other races rather than the races as a whole.
@Serrure: About the disgrace, I was usually asked, if there werent any appropriate guys back in my home country. And you're right. There are less of these white guys in Kunming. You'd rather find them in Shanghai, Beijing, Chengdu and other Cities with foreigner who only come to China for work. These guys, although living on and off in China for several years, can only say 'meinv' and 'zhe ge'.
About the dating and marriage part. I once dated a Chinese guy. After 6 weeks of relationship, we went out for dinner as usual, nothing suspicious. When we arrived it was a very expensive restaurant and his parents and grandparents were already waiting for us. I grinned and beart it even when his family starting discussion when we should get married, asked about my date of birth (to ask a fortune teller about the right date to get married) and hunxue (mixed raced children) were a better choice and we could have more than just one child. His family wanted to have at least two. Afterwards I told him off and explained to him that he should do it again without letting me know. One week later he proposed to me o_O He said that his family thinks Im a good choice since I can speak Chinese and I'm white and from a rich country. His father was also already looking for an apartment for us, since they wanted us to live in China. That was the final straw and finally gave up on dating Chinese guys.
Geezer digs up two year old threads to prove his crazy conspiracy theories. Get some fresh air, Sir.
@HFCAMPO "Can someone confirm or deny - Is latataille also mmteacher, tommann, crazylaowai, and Matt Miller?"
You forgot to add 'caveatipse' to that list.
@HFCAMPO
I am confident that crazy.laowai, yommann, mmkunmingteacher, latataille and Matt Miller are the same guy.
I met Matt once, at Sal's. He did buy me a Diet Coke. It was pretty obvious from our conversation he was crazy.laowai but he denied that he was. He did say he was going to begin posting as tommann.
Here is Matt's short resume:
foodergolove.com/about/
Here is Matt's last post to his food blog:
foodergolove.com/[...]
Here is Matt's entrepreneurial attempt at funding his life style:
www.indiegogo.com/projects/the-miller-guide#home
Geezer, you sound crazy and obsessed, with all due respect. You are basically stalking.
@Geezer, why not start with his first forum post in China?
www.thebeijinger.com/[...]
So yet another thread has been derailed and ruined by the same couple of jerks who like to stalk and harass other users.
Matt, are you attacking moi?
Be nice or reincarnate yourself...again!
Geezer since August 23, 2008
