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hmmm..I know gold is silent.

Forums > Living in Kunming > Pets store

Bai Long Flower and Bird market (Bai Long hua niao shi chang) is a big one. There are many pet shops inside the market. I buy anything there for my cats and dog. It's in Bai Long Si, close to Expo garden.

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JUSTICE?
Justice is JUST ICE.

Forums > Living in Kunming > Dating Chinese Girls

Interesting topic.

Not sure what crazy.laowai means by saying "traditional".

Here's my definition of "a very traditinal Chinese girl":
1. "Mentally traditional", which means a girl has the morals of old China. For example,

always love her husband whatever he is. We have a saying "Go with your husband no matter whether you marry a 'cock' or a 'dog'. "

"Xiang fu jiao zi", which means taking good care of her husband and teaching their kids well.

Respect her parents-in-law no matter how they treat her.
Not eat sitting at the table with men.

Being very dillegent. Do all the housework at home.
etc. etc.

2. "Sexually traditional"—-
A girl remains virgin until the night of the wedding.

She could not have sex with anyone else except her husband, even if she's widowed, she could not remarry or have sex with anyone.

A girl could not show her lust for sex. Sex is sth. dirty.
......
So, it's hard to tell whether a girl is traditional or not just by appearance unless you know her very well and even live together for some time.

Besides, many of our traditions have disappeared or are disappearing over time. Divorce rate is increasing sharply; women show what they want in bed; girls are more materialistic when choosing future husbands..."traditional" comes from "tradition". In 30 or 40 years, I'm sure "traditional" would have new definition with the changing of "tradition".

Maybe crazy.laowai means "shy" when he says "traditional"? If she's a shy girl, you had better take your time to get to know what she really wants. Patience is necessary.

Forums > Living in Kunming > GoKunming feedback

@Chingis

In general, Gokunming manages the website well (except the exclusivity agreement before). Any school, bar or company who is willing to and can afford to pay can put their ads. on the mainpage like Keats, Myfavour etc. which is able to keep stable business. The ones in classifields are free for individuals. If any information in classsifields were to be charged, I guess the classifields would be empty. It's true it could sort out a bit of the confusion if all were to be charged. What if all men should be shaved bald in order to sort out a bit of the confusion with women...