I think she's trying to meet a foreign guy without getting her bf jealous, so she needs to disguise it as an "event".

@yankee00 where did you get this? i think u misread my post

why are you attacking my BF? You dont know him, He's actually great. I think maybe youre jealous.

haha, yeah i'm jealous.
why are you organizing events on an expat forum? you're tired of hanging out with chinese people?

@Magnifico
In that case, he'll have to be sophisticated enough to talk about about politics and economics, and have enough money to not have to complain about the rich!

haha. Zoey, you'll be grateful that I'm not joining your all-you-can-drink banana daiquiri meetup with mostly male foreign expats + your bf. i'm constantly complaining about the rich and i know nothing about politics.

Jeez, immature much guys? Seriously, I just read yankee and Magnifico's responses, its like a school yard teasing contest. Clearly you must be challenged by her invading your perceived territory somehow.

Believe it or not Zoey, not all foreigners are assholes.

What? another sausage fest.

what perceived territory? what are you talking about? if i was zoey's bf i'd be a little concerned, what with 98% of the people on this forum being boys.

if a girl has a bf, the more kosher thing would be to expand your circle of friends with other couples, not single males.

if my gf was on here inviting single men to go bowling, she'd get the heeve ho real quick. sorry, but that's how i roll.

Kosher sausage fest, is that like no porkin'