listen....
there is no reason why she can't have a baby after an abortion ( altho i do not support abortion). Women can have babIES after abortions, if that is properly done.
For her to say that she can't have a baby after an abortion is pure lie... That is one lie that you can be sure she had given you.
Next, i bet you can't read Chinese characters as you had mentioned your speaking and understanding skill is not superb.
Best is to bring a friend along the next time you guys to the hospital.
The test reports etc can be fake you know. Be sure to check the authenticity of the report cum the doctor.... MOst of the time, con man/ women are willing to go the extra mile to make everything looks real...
and by getting you to believe her story means that she will secure a lifetime of financial support from you. Who knows she does this kind of con for a living?? HOw well do you know her??? What if you pay her some money now and she just disappear??
I almost got conned a few months back and when everything was happening, everything sounded so real... so real!!!!!! Am lucky that a friend told me that it was just a scam.
Maybe you should really have someone real in you life to talk things over. I see some older man on here who has given you very good advice. Probably try ask if they could give you advice not on here but real life. I think this is a very crucial time for you to make a decision and having input from someone else helps!!