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Forums > Living in Kunming > How does one meet nice Chinese women?

The BEST way IMO, is to first speak some of the language. If not well, then decent enough so that you can be understood and the rest can be filled in with English. This pretty much applies everywhere else in the world too.

Then do whatever you would normally do. Girls are everywhere (as Seinfeld says!). Walk around with an open heart and a smile, say "Hi!" to girls that catch your eye and you have a chance to talk to casually. Being at least an elementary speaker (2-3 months of study) will help you immensely do this. Weed out the wheat from the chaff through finding out about them and their family, their interests (usually quite narrow with Chinese gals) and their life. Find out fairly early if they are attached and only go after ones that are not! Do NOT hang out in only expat places and bars, get out into normal China.

I am married already to a lovely Chinese girl who I met in a book store where she was working, we struck up a conversation and agreed to hang out to improve each others language and things went from there. I have had numerous other oppourtunities since being here as I always am friendly to others and have an open and amenable attitude, but obviously haven't gone past friends or acquaintances because I am a loyal husband and love my wife dearly. I aren't good looking or tall, but really I could get a nice girlfriend in a few days if I wanted! They are everywhere, like foreign men (the exotic factor) and enjoy the attention you give them while judging you for future husband material. If you fail the last one, they will run away fast in China, which is to be expected. Be open, honest, friendly, inquisitive, engaging and if you are intelligent, of reasonable health, have a decent outlook on life and will be a good father, Chinese women will be banging down your door.

Geez, just last weekend while hiking Xi Shan alone I met one group of very interesting girls one who was clearly very interested in me who I chatted to for a few minutes. I struck up a conversation with another girl waiting at the bus stop 2 days ago who seemed like excellent girlfriend material and was displaying normal Chinese innocent yet flirty attitude. This isn't limited to me, an Aussie friend (quite tall and good looking) has to beat them off with a stick and tells me all the time of "another one" he talked to and was clearly interested. He has a similar open and friendly attitude, but his Chinese is basic to poor!

So my question to others that have asked me this is "How can you NOT find a Chinese girlfriend???" if you want one!

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Forums > Travel Yunnan > Clothing Banna and Kunming

Dali/Lijiang and Kunming (to a lesser extent) can get cold all year round, particularly at night or when the sun isn't out. They are at a high altitude, so when the sun ain't shining, the altitude takes over temperature wise. Banna is pretty much full on tropical so no worries there.

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Forums > Living in Kunming > Western Union currently not working

Likely the people just don't have a clue how to do international money transfers, rather than you can't, they just don't know that you can. They aren't well trained. I have tried it at CCB, CGB and Bank of China... with nobody knowing how to do it until my local wife talks to them (she is in banking!). Then magically they call someone that knows on their end, who talks them through the process, then it happens eventually.... quite annoying, but I guess that is what happens when you are in the arse end of nowhere (in China terms).

Most likely place where they know how to do it would be the Bank of China... I think the bank on Renmin Dong Lu/Beijing Lu is the big one in the city? They probably know how to do it... probably.

Having it done "quickly" though is something else entirely. Its taken me from 3 days to 3 weeks, although more recently its been closer to 3 days (using CGB). Its not the fastest, but it does happen...

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But wait, I don't think the dates add up, I think its recognised Tolui died in 1232 after sacrificing himself for his brother, yet Kublai took Dali over 30 years later...

Never wanting to sound like a bible but...

Ghenghis begat Tolui who begat Kublai Khan. Tolui was Ghenghis' youngest son (recognised anyway!). Its entirely possible Kublai took pops along considering Tolui was considered a great military general.

Unless you didn't read my comment or are just obtuse by nature Geezer, you will notice my humour was not directed at the story but at the comment prior to mine, which also was not related to the story at all other than by the possibility of ice being on roads.

Come on, at least my comments were slightly entertaining (well, I thought so!). But you guys are right, god/speeding/overloading.... amazing all these foreigners that must have been at the accident site and saw what caused it after exhaustive investigation. And it all goes to show that the "ice" story must just be some big cover up by police.

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Wow, just wow. Possibly the best Chinese food I have had in Kunming. And in one of the nicest, traditional courtyard style restaurant I have been in. A woman dressed in traditional qi pao playing a gu zheng just adds to it.

We had okra, mushroom soup, dried beef and chou dofu. All top notch with the bill coming in at just over 250 kuai. But we could have fed 3 people for that so not too bad at about 80-90 kuai each. Not the cheapest but for the quality, it's damn good.

If you have people visiting and want to take them to a traditional Chinese style restaurant with Yunnan style food, or want a romantic night out with a gal, you can't go wrong here. Close to Green Lake (down a little alley) for a romantic walk... Just perfect.

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Pretty good place for getting all your documents translated and/or notarised. Note that there are a number of notaries in the building which you can find by going up the stairs (the elevators are impossible). But you have to find the stairs to do so... go in the door, head over to the right, go up the big wide stairs which head up a floor, turn right then right again into the elevator area and right again into the stairwells. Whew!

One point off for the elevators never being available and having to hike 7-9 flights of stairs (not good if you have to go 3-4 times a day like I often did!)

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This does not stop at the Jinanya hotel at Da Shang Hui as the flyers state (and is on the images tab here). They need to have another stop in the same area or else they are missing out on covering a big chunk of the city.

You can take another bus, the 919C, I believe, if you are nearby Da Shang Hui, which leaves from the bus station on HeHong Lu, nearby the Qianxing road intersection. This bus goes every hour and is white, found at the western end of the station. It is operated by a different company and takes about 1 hour 10 minutes to get to the airport due to a large number of stops especially near the airport.

Great bus though if you can catch it!

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Friendly people, even got to the talk to the vice consulate, who told me she had done a stint in Malaysia's Siberian Consulate!

English is spoken by some of the Chinese girls working at the desk who are pleasant to deal with. I assume they do Visa's as well but I wasn't here for a visa, this time!