The BEST way IMO, is to first speak some of the language. If not well, then decent enough so that you can be understood and the rest can be filled in with English. This pretty much applies everywhere else in the world too.
Then do whatever you would normally do. Girls are everywhere (as Seinfeld says!). Walk around with an open heart and a smile, say "Hi!" to girls that catch your eye and you have a chance to talk to casually. Being at least an elementary speaker (2-3 months of study) will help you immensely do this. Weed out the wheat from the chaff through finding out about them and their family, their interests (usually quite narrow with Chinese gals) and their life. Find out fairly early if they are attached and only go after ones that are not! Do NOT hang out in only expat places and bars, get out into normal China.
I am married already to a lovely Chinese girl who I met in a book store where she was working, we struck up a conversation and agreed to hang out to improve each others language and things went from there. I have had numerous other oppourtunities since being here as I always am friendly to others and have an open and amenable attitude, but obviously haven't gone past friends or acquaintances because I am a loyal husband and love my wife dearly. I aren't good looking or tall, but really I could get a nice girlfriend in a few days if I wanted! They are everywhere, like foreign men (the exotic factor) and enjoy the attention you give them while judging you for future husband material. If you fail the last one, they will run away fast in China, which is to be expected. Be open, honest, friendly, inquisitive, engaging and if you are intelligent, of reasonable health, have a decent outlook on life and will be a good father, Chinese women will be banging down your door.
Geez, just last weekend while hiking Xi Shan alone I met one group of very interesting girls one who was clearly very interested in me who I chatted to for a few minutes. I struck up a conversation with another girl waiting at the bus stop 2 days ago who seemed like excellent girlfriend material and was displaying normal Chinese innocent yet flirty attitude. This isn't limited to me, an Aussie friend (quite tall and good looking) has to beat them off with a stick and tells me all the time of "another one" he talked to and was clearly interested. He has a similar open and friendly attitude, but his Chinese is basic to poor!
So my question to others that have asked me this is "How can you NOT find a Chinese girlfriend???" if you want one!
The last Mongols of Yunnan
Posted byBut wait, I don't think the dates add up, I think its recognised Tolui died in 1232 after sacrificing himself for his brother, yet Kublai took Dali over 30 years later...
The last Mongols of Yunnan
Posted byNever wanting to sound like a bible but...
Ghenghis begat Tolui who begat Kublai Khan. Tolui was Ghenghis' youngest son (recognised anyway!). Its entirely possible Kublai took pops along considering Tolui was considered a great military general.
Minivan plunges off Yunnan cliff, killing twelve
Posted byUnless you didn't read my comment or are just obtuse by nature Geezer, you will notice my humour was not directed at the story but at the comment prior to mine, which also was not related to the story at all other than by the possibility of ice being on roads.
Minivan plunges off Yunnan cliff, killing twelve
Posted byCome on, at least my comments were slightly entertaining (well, I thought so!). But you guys are right, god/speeding/overloading.... amazing all these foreigners that must have been at the accident site and saw what caused it after exhaustive investigation. And it all goes to show that the "ice" story must just be some big cover up by police.
Minivan plunges off Yunnan cliff, killing twelve
Posted byThe street washing water is most likely so radioactive that it heats itself up, so don't worry about it.