Sara, you are right. You have JD and a phD so WE are all wrong and you are right. I tried - you are right - The 4 years of the same person saying the exact same thing is all in our minds - you are right - we just imagined it. I am really a wife beater because you say I am a misogynist.

The people here did NOT really read the posts from this same person with many diff names over the last 4 years - we imagined it.

Good luck - Angry men - have at her - she is all yours. I was STUPID enough to think that some real dialogue may perhaps open her mind but that is impossible as she already has a JD and a PhD. What I really think is that she is full of BS.

I am going to hold my beautiful wife and tonight and as long as I live I will have her and my freinds at my side. You will live and die like Eleanor Rigby with your JD and PhD in hand - good luck - Look at all the lonely people.

My JD and my PhD tell me you are NOT married and never will be ever again as you see ALL men as angry men - that is called projection - you see them as you really are - Goodnight!!!!

Like I said Sara - you have been here for a whole 5 days. You have no idea what those dlelted accounts mean or who they were or what they said over the last few YEARS.

The problem is NOT that there is NO evidence - the problem is that YOU - Sara - do not understand the evidence.

So I suggest you STOP saying - there is no evidence and START asking more questions.

But as I mentioned earlier - since day 1 you did not come here with humilty, asking questions, you came here to teach!

sara I just provided a post that clearly shows that there is someone who continually makes new accounts. Did you open the thread before you replied - I have yet to see any evidence that anyone here is "Matt"

On my second day in this forum, some people said things that offended me but I did not begin an rguement with them. I used discernment and restraint and I continued to observe rather than begin to call people names.

To continue using your methods and your language is your right - just as it is the right of other members to treat you as they see fit.

It amazes me that your reply came in less than 3 minutes before I finished my post.

Sara you ask a most reasonable question. I would certainly ask the same if I was in your shoes.

Since you ask _ I will provide answer.

www.gokunming.com/en/forums/thread/12372/deleted_accounts

Keep in mind that you have been here for a whole 5 days - www.gokunming.com/en/users/profile/43558/sarahb

The allegations being made are NOT imaginied, there is solid evidence. I agree that you are NOT MATT but there are some people who keep coming back. I am saying right now - I do NOT think you are MATT - others may agree or disagree but I am telling you right now that i do NOT think you are MATT and I have never said you were MATT.

Someone posted earlier - If you do not want to be called MATT then stop acting like MATT - when you saw that post you should have asked a sincere question as you are asking now.

I also believe in evidence so I am clearly telling you what makes others think you are MATT - these words that you wrote not once but several times - small clique of three or four angry old men. So I suggest you not use these words any more.

I remember when I first started on this forum. I began with humilty, asking questions. You and a few others came in like a bull in china shop - ordering, telling and bullying others and acting like you are in your own home, not acting like a guest.

I have taken the time to answer your question, with respect and without my usual sarcasm. I hope you will heed the suggsstions I have posted - since you asked.

I remember I was watching the movie Marco Polo a while back. The Great Khan was contemplating an attack on Japan and a Japanese spy told him that although the Japanese were always fighting each other that they will join together if China attacked. Needless to say his advice was not heeded and the Khan lost the fight from the start and the Japanese were victorious.

In the same way, I recall many battles among the members of this forum, but it seems very clear that when an outsider comes into this community and PRETENDS to act like a member he/she/they will be quickly dealt with.

As has been mentioned here earlier by others, it is not the disagreements or fights that bother me - it is the gatekeeping and desire for censorship that really gets under my skin.

I cherish my GK account and I admit I have taken things too far on more than a few occassions.

A few months ago I received a PM from the GK staff with a very direct warning. I was thankful for the warning because I would not have given a warning if I was running the show so I appreciate their patience and understanding.

I admit that I enjoy the entertainment portion of this forum but I also learn a lot from other members here. I do not want to lose my account and after 6 years of having the SAME account I do not want to risk losing it at this late stage of the game.

The other members of this forum are NOT crazy or imagininig things. There are SOME people who continually keep coming back with new accounts. Although their account is brand new they speak on certain topics with exclusive knowledge and history but they pretend to be new.

For the REAL new members, I apologize on behalf of others if you were erroneously called MATT or MATT-like. Please understand that we have been members of this forum for more than a few years and we do not like those people coming here to play GAMES with US - our community.

I am happily married to a beautiful, sexy woman (Who I do NOT beat or abuse) and I love my life here in China. I dont need a NEWBIE to tell me not to complain or report taxis because those newbies have not lived in China nor Kunming for 12 years like I have or even longer for a few other members have.

Keep in mind, this is the internet, it is all make believe, it is not real. If you do not beleive me then just turn off the computer and it will all go away. My wife, my family, my freinds, the people around me are real, not this forum. Come here to learn, to get info, or to be entertained - thats all.

Good luck to all - old and new members - play nice!