A suicide pact. That would show everyone. They'd be sorry then!

Thanks for the samples. Best advice for any marriage - avoid in laws. Unless you have a Great relationship with inlaws, avoid them as much as possible. Do NOT live in the same city or province and visit as few times as possible.

My wife and I get along well because we do not have to hasssle with in-laws, mine or hers. Every time she talks to her family on the phone, there is always an arguement about what she SHOULD do. Regardless of how old she is, they still want her to do what is best for them.

The reality is that chinese women change and adapt more than the western man does, this is the reality of a chinese mixed marriage.

Chinese women become more westernized rather than the western man becoming more chinese.

well,as a young chinese young girl.i can tell you why young chinese girls with old western guys,it's because of love,young chinese girls dont care about visa or money, they are young,they dont have lots of "love " experences,but those old western guys know how to cheer a girl up,how to make her happy,young girls all love romantic stuff,so they really in love,she can get the cares from a old guy .not fucking because money or visa,and some guys think it's because of money,but u never ask the girl if she really loves the person,tthose girls are young,they dare to love,but after got dumped by those guys who only wants fun,those girls choose to move on,and start to dating western guys crazy.of course,i am talking about the girls who under 25 old.and but yeah,some chinese women are smart,they want visa,they want money.but one thing u need to know,no matter chinese or western,there are some people like money and they be with rich old men,not only chinese,dont be racist. define girls and women,define "young".
girls are adventurers,they dont care about age,they put themself in danger,just because of love,women are mature,they dont eager for love,but sense of safety.
some people judge chinese girls like western guys,it's kinda like u put the money on the floor and u dont allow people to pick it up,and if someone did,hen u jugde the person like money .

to those old western guys:leave young chinese girls alone before they getting hurt.go to get a wife,or go to find some samrt chinese women !

@sookay
You have many good points. I too wish that these bastard westerner perverts would at least make it clear from the start what they are looking for instead of leading a 'young lady' for a heartbreak that will leave her scared for life.

but one thing i dont want to deny,chinese female are charming

welcome back, again.

SLIM is sexxxy!

slim？come on！

so sookay, you don't like "fucking because of money or visa"? do you kiss your mother with that dirty mouth?

Please don't bite someone's head off the moment they have gathered the courage to comment here.

It's an echo chamber in here and this topic could do with the perspective of a native Chinese,