Hi, Chichi1999. As a Chinese, your questions made me smile. I really enjoy to see what you've seen differently from your perspective, which is normal for me in my life. This is why the world is so interesting.
Sorry to hear that,but I wanna say you are so unlucky.There is many differences between Western women and Chinese women, some Chinses women like to be treated as a princess.But there are still several samrt,independent,lovely Chinese women here,you should keep looking for her.Good luck.