1. China is a Developing Country, it will take time for them to understand higher social manners.

2. For an American to understand this better, if you visit some European Countries like Switzerland or Germany, you will find that their social manners are higher than Americans.

3. Hence, just as Americans may find the Chinese unmannered, some European Countries find Americans unmannered.

4. It is all a matter of educational development.

Natural courtesy is a world apart from snobbish mannerism.

there is an old chinese saying:"things u don't want others to do to u,do not do to others." u hate china and chinese people, why do u gays come to china?