date long and live together first. chinese women like to test the relationship, they all do it. sometimes they test it till it breaks. be prepared to be tested. you don't need to bow to all the crap. good thing about her testing the relationship is you get to know real quick what her long term expectations are. from what i can see the biggest fears are that you will desert them if they get fat, or sick, or when they get old. they are looking at the long game from day one.

A prais blog would be small and manageable. the alternative would be 'kin huge.

all relationships need working at, none are easy. marriage is a long haul sharing the burdent together. sometimes it doesnt work out. i am brit so was my first wife divorced in 3 years. my second wife is chinese we have been married 10yers. we have are ups and downs but still commited to each other.

if you want to earn big money go to japan where they pay for want and expect quality. not china where everyone wants cheap and cheerful

some people in local market will probably have edge on comepetance and be cheaper.