in china if your spouse is unfaithful, they get nothing in a divorce. selfish people are often unfaithful. gold diggers often have a regular bf anyway, before they even met you. stupid people are easy to get caught screwing around. private eye is big biz and growing.

not a whimp to realize that this has been a big painful error. maybe burying your head in the sand, staying then making babies and destroying your own life and that of a new child, or leaving later when the kids are growing up is the real last recourse of the whimp. my parents should have got divorced when they were in their 30s before they started raising kids in a truly toxic environment. they waited till they were in the 60s having misserable lives, and messing up the lives of us kids. i seriolsy wish my parents had divorced long ago.

if staying in hotel, make sure you get a fapio with date booked in / out incase they didn't register you, as they might deny it afterwards to cover thier own ass

hk taiwan mcau is classes as leaving mainland china and you need to reregister. the whole visa thing has gotten silly of late. especially kunming. this kind of application of the rules varing from psb office to office is actually making life harder for those who want to stay withing the law.

is wife young or from richer family? or both? did she have an ayi to do everything short of wipping her butt? some ch girls are very high maint esp those from big city middle class famliy.