Yep, weed.

Just goes to show that the despotic feudal lords, or the serf role models no longer apply to the exiled Tibetan. I doubt very much that Tibet would return to feudalism, I doubt that this is what the DL supports either.

The only 'real' gyms I have seen are next to the stadium on DongFengDong Lu, but that is in the east.

Are there any stadiums in the west?.

For the real sweat gyms you will probably need to speak Chinese.

Quoting religious history is not helpful. This is more about the combination between religion, politics and culture.

Most religions are combination of doctrine, tradition, and practice. That is why Catholics no longer burn protestants at the stake. It is why many Muslim countries no longer stone people for crimes.
The Tibetan Buddhism of today is not the same as 100 years ago. I have met and worked with a Tibetan in exile. He was a typical secular asian. Living with his gf and smoking weed, and homesick for his country (that he had never been to).

To answer the OP's question.

If you are looking for a long term relationship - Friendship first, sex second.

Guys advertising for sex are looking for women who only want sex. They are not looking for a long term relationship. They are looking for a woman who does not want a long term relationship.

If both sides come into the relationship knowing this then it is a relationship of equals and it works.

Classic example, and lets do a bit of role reversal. An unhappy and unfulfilled married woman wants some attention that her husband no longer gives her, but she does not want to give up the house and the car and the kids education (very common in China). Her ideal partner is a married man who does not want to leave his wife, but just wants sex and companionship. This is a relationship of equals.

Oh! and guess what. It is not just married men who screw around. I have never been unfaithful to my partner. But I have had relationships (plural) with women cheating on their man. Not bragging, just stating a fact.