Forums > Living in Kunming > Laowai in Beijing trys to rape girl... Ha haa, I aren't embarrassed, you took what I said and blew it out of all proportion. I did the same. For example, I said laowai. We are laowai whether you like it or not. If you don't like the term, that's not my problem. Why you start attacking a person for using an innocent term that is in common usage in our environment is beyond me. Hell, you even used it yourself! I never said he should be treated different from Chinese. You suggested I said it.
You say:
"Foreigners" means people from over 100 countries, with nothing specific about them, or shared between them.
Which is incorrect. There is something shared between us: none of us are Chinese citizens. In my experience, many Chinese view us as one big group, not my fault, but that is reality.
Another example, I said "I hope he is locked up and the key thrown away." I did not say "I demand that he gets a worse punishment than Chinese people because he is lao wai". Who makes sloppy assumptions again? If you don't want to read what I said, or want to make assumptions about me, that also isn't my fault. You then take sentences I have written, take them out of context then using this as evidence, insinuate that I am simple.
I think the problem is that you started personally attacking me for something innocent. I don't know if you were having a bad day or something, but you force me constantly to defend myself against what you perceive as some amazing evil that I wrote. This in turn causes a tone for the thread which makes other people think it is OK to do the same. You are perpetuating flaming.
Think about it. All I posted was a news story about a lao wai tried to rape a girl and said it was bad. I posted it because it was pretty unusual to get that sort of activity on video and its pretty damning and also to highlight (on a foreigner website) the disdain I have for people who believe coming to another culture to abuse women is OK. As a result, you have since accused me of unskilled writing (we aren't exactly writing a newspaper here), sordidly questioned if I am a rapist myself, accused me of being racist and lastly of being unable to read.
Did your wife just leave you or something? Did your dog die? Did you stub your toe? You seem to have singled me out as a person to attack. Why? I don't know.
What I will say is this:
I am sorry if I offended anyone by this forum post. If I did so, it was completely not my intention. I am not racist or a supporter of rape whether it is committed by foreigners or whoever. If you were personally offended by any post of mine, please PM me and I will take you out for a beer and explain myself.
However if you are just angry at the world and are using this as an outlet to vent your anger you should probably realise this won't help. It will probably just make you more angry, bitter and stubborn.
Interview: Biogas researcher Ben Underwood
发布者Any plans to use the plants they scoop up for power generation and fertiliser?
They may not wish to use the plants as a fuel source though - creating an industry based on the stuff you want to eradicate e may mean you never eradicate it...
Interview: Biogas researcher Ben Underwood
发布者How about using all the plant waste coming out of Dianchi? There must only be thousands of tonnes of organic waste every year...
Man misses 1 billion yuan jackpot by single number
发布者What do you do HFCAMPO that justifies your existence as a clearly well off foreigner in a relatively poor area of the world?
Your answer better include working with orphaned drug addicted lepers or you may just fall off your high horse.
And how do/did you make the money you have? It better not have been through the capitalist system you so despise...
Kunming Auto Show rakes in 1.5 billion yuan
发布者Nope 13k+. Read the article?
Official: Yunnan will have two bullet trains by 2016
发布者Ok, strangely enough I am posting this from a two storey train on the way to Lijiang via their ON BOARD WIFI! More reasons to ignore others when on the train.