laotou of course i can see that peace is not the answer otherwise we wouldn't have been spending millenniums keep doing the same thing called war (actually enlightened guys such as locke for example stated that people are entitled to do revolutions with army if they are under oppression).
but the recipe for a society are often not the same as the recipe for individuals,so my question is:
if your country/ethnic group/community would ask you to kill your wife/sons/parents/girlfriend for them (like the bible story of isaac and abraham for example) instead of just kill a so called "enemy" would you do it?
how far can your sense of belonging to a group or your obedience go?
please don't use realpolitik to answer but just what YOU really think...

hfcampo I understand what you mean but you know i don't use this account very often and to login to the correspondent google one i'm required to verify, re-input my mobile phone, receive a code etc i personally don't agree to this policy that is more and more common to email, social network and so on, i think it's time consuming and goes exactly in the opposite direction of preventing spam..but i respect your point, guys hope to meet you somewhere in town, it seems we could have an interesting conversation, sorry not tonight cos I got different plans..

to be honest i don't think so because it's a delicate question that may cause tension among people who meet for the first time...a forum seems more appropriate and free

I don't wanna be disrespectful but...
u guys are ex-military men? do u believe in using force to solve international conflicts?

As always people tends to go off topic on these forum, maybe they are just bored or angry for something...
So mightymouse i can tell you in km i've seen many black guys/girls teaching english, native and non, actually talking about primary school being black might be even an advantage because kunmingers basically think multicolor is multicultural...so u plan to stay 6 months 1 year in china, if you want a part time job just search private primary schools, everywhere there are ad included on gokm, the real problem you might encounter is the low salary and lack of management/ incompetence (this one is really a km peculiarity) that often brings your class to be canceled...good luck!