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You're welcome. Thanks for the alternative perspective on Krav - I'd only perused a few books on the subject. I was taught martial arts for health and exercise. The first rule of combat is avoid a direct confrontation, if possible - which is in alignment with SunZi et al. If you are forced to engage - be fast, precise, crippling if possible, deadly as the opportunity arises.
The art of surprise is critical in a forced confrontation - also derived from Sunzi et al.
So, depends on one's philosophy and purpose. Since you studied Krav - I assumed you were more interested in the self-defense aspects, with exercise being a secondary benefit.
FYI - All forms of Taiji (that I'm aware of in my very limited world) provide enhanced stance and ultimately balance bases - which will help you significantly in any other style. One way to verify your taiji instructor is an expert or master - check out his/her legs and thighs - they'll look like mini versions of an Arnold Schwarzenegger - hence the comment regarding the focus on stance and balance - both static and transitionary. One of my old buddies was (probably still is) a lifelong practitioner - but denied he was an expert - scrawny little guy - but his legs were like sprung steel. The drawback - he muttered something about finding pants that fit as his thighs were larger than most humans with his waist size, which may explain the loose fitting workout clothes.
Hope you find a great instructor and even more important - great students to commune with. Iron sharpens iron.
Forums > Living in Kunming > Martial arts Kunming
there's a poster named taijijulia who teaches Chen style Taiji. Chen style is more dynamic than the Yang style you see practiced in parks.
There's also a teacher of LoHan (luohan?) style taiji, which is allegedly directly derived from shaolin and is VERY martial. The teacher has a son who has a formal school in some of the major shopping centers (golden eagle?) etc.
Visit the green lake campus of yunda in the mornings around 10am and you'll see the practitioners subtly training.
Definitely not as lethally combat specific as krav - but it's definitely and specifically the combat version of taiji, which maybe more to your liking - although it does NOT stress the high impact sparring and lethality of krav and other harder styles.
For hardcore martial arts practitioners - most add taiji to their retinue as it focuses more on the softer aspects of martial arts - non-crippling, non-lethal (but just as capable) wrist and joint locking, blocking, and non-lethal, non-crippling threat neutralization.
Sometimes - you'll need or want the ability to neutralize without killing or crippling, to make your point.
Forums > Living in Kunming > Is the importance of Guanxi in business in decline
Guanxi or relationship management has many meanings, however in professional project management, relationship management or guanxi guanli is known as Stakeholder Management. Stakeholder Management is prevalent in most professional projects and is usually formally documented and planned during the initial phases of a project, starting with the business case analysis.
I believe the comments here are more related to the abuse of relationships - inserting family, friends, or relationships for positions that they may not be qualified for, thereby potentially introducing external risk to a project or investment, but I don't see this as very different from managing an troublesome or under qualified employee assigned to a project, by upper management for whatever reason. It's just another thing to manage.
Stephen58 - if you'd like to meet, just PM me and we can share information and perspectives on historical and current relationship management in Yunnan.
Most of my relationships in Yunnan are gravitating towards a more professional approach to relationship management, as the rather complicated business climate is slowly evolving, towards professional scientific processes for mitigating risk, reducing or eliminating corruption, and generally getting things done professionally, especially at the higher levels of government and investment organizations.
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Forums > Living in Kunming > My very blonde kids
You guys are really nice - somebody touches your child - I'd be looking might menacing - like I'm one movement away from killing somebody for molesting my child.
In the USA - one ALWAYS has to be alert to personal space in and around children, because of the pervasive and prevalence of child molesters and child murderers.
Before they even get to the physical touch - you should be glaring like you're gonna cut off their hand - a friendly, but menacing glare.
If they're too stupid to take the hint that most animals would instantly recognize - whack their hand or wrist so it hurts.
Or be passive, after all, in China it's most probably innocent harmless fascination with other people's pets.
I enjoyed MengBa's solution - but I don't like touching other people's hair because it may be dirty or contain parasites such as lice.
As they're being friendly - a resounding slap on the back and hearty laughing should do the trick.