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Forums > Living in Kunming > How does one meet nice Chinese women?

@Tonyaod

I'm not a big fan of the word 'loser'. It implies that life is a competition, a race, where we derive happiness by feeling superior to others, and depression from feeling inferior to the 'winners'. Life is just a series of moments. Happiness shouldn't be derived from results/current status (which are temporary) things but from within.

Also, lets not start this bullying culture again, calling people losers because they date chinese girlfriends.

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Forums > Living in Kunming > How does one meet nice Chinese women?

I've heard from Chinese men that they are bemused at westerners choice of girlfriends/wives. Apparently westerners go for the ugly ones. Part of that is perhaps down to cultural definitions of beauty. But looking at foreigner's (long term) girlfriends/wives, they are rarely very pretty. I think this may be down to three other reasons:
1) Foreigners are choosing from a relatively small pool of women with good English and who are outlandish/brave enough to bring a foreigner to meet the parents.
2) Westerners are wary of gold diggers (common and as far as I can tell, a fairly acceptable life strategy in China), which may make them automatically suspicious of women who seem to be 'out of their league'.
3) Western tend to find it easier with the ladies here than in the west, mostly because they are in limited supply, unlike Chinese men. This means that if they settle, they usually prefer to do it with someone they have a good connection with - not just sexually - but on a friendship level. The chances are that the girl they have with the best connection with as a friend will not be the most beautiful one.

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Forums > Living in Kunming > Driving electric bike with two

Surely rush hour is the time when sharing a ride is most useful to the city - if every one of those passengers got on their own bike or car or taxi or bus, it would make things much worse!

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17 will replace existing ziplines, which Li characterized as "dangerous"

I wonder how many people have died building and using ziplines compared with how many people die building and using bridges?

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a very pleasant park with a tall pagoda you can climb and take photos of the city if you wish. Roses in summer, blossom in spring, nice lawn to sit on, bbq areas.

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Recently the food seems to be better. Decent steak at a decent price, decent pizza, some decent wine, and the music is more suitable these days (Rammenstein wasn't the right mood music for Cantina)!

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Had lunch - grilled chicken on top of mashed cuttlefish and a salad. The chicken was tasty and well cooked, and there was plenty of meat/fish to fill up even a hungry person. The salad was overdressed and nothing special - I won't order one next time. The service is a decent imitation of what you might find in the west. A large menu of food and drink. A nice civilised place to go for food or drink, but some of the dishes (i.e. the steaks) are very pricey. You could easily spend 300rmb+ per person here. Equally, it is possible to have lunch for under 60rmb per person (as we did). Warning - the bottle of water on each table costs an eye watering 48rmb! Don't be a sucker by opening it!

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Went for a spot of lunch. Best pizza I've had in Kunming by some distance. In fact, one of the best pizzas I've ever had - quality ingredients, thin base, cooked to perfection. Sashimi salmon tasted very fresh and was well presented. The drinks are expensive, and one of the waiters was letting the side down by being a bit scruffy and impolite (hence not 5 stars), but definitely go and try the pizza.

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Not bad. Pizza base was a little thick for my taste. Great selection of craft beers in the fridge, a few beers on tap, and well priced mixed drinks and cocktails. Staff were pleasant. A 14" pizza is the perfect size for two people, and very reasonably priced at 45-70RMB. Beware that the English menu, whilst written in perfect English, is not necessarily accurate. I ordered the 'local one' pizza expecting pepperoni and mango but got neither. The waitress explained that was a mistake on the menu. Would be nice if the menu corresponded with what you get on the plate! Hopefully this will get sorted.