Best to understand the environment and history in which your "date" was raised, regardless of gender. Should make for interesting conversational fodder, depending on how well you both communicate and the level of honesty you mutually wish to achieve.
Chinese in general - regardless of gender - don't seriously date until well into college. As such, they tend to be more naive to western style dating and more socially "retarded" (naive) when it comes to intimate relationships. Think "puppy love" or immaturity. Prolific texting, calls, gifting, etc followed by potentially harmless modest stalker behavior after a breakup.
Dating has been and always will be a US/Hollywood export (since they sensationalized it first!). The American intent of dating is "to get to know someone" with the potential goal of intimacy, followed up with the potential goal of long-term relationships...after we've "lived together for a while, to try it out".
Chinese (in general) are far more serious about personal relationships and tend to focus on long-term personal relationships, close friends and lovers - as such "dating" is normally a prelude to marriage - it's a courtship - meet the folks - although there's a rather vast and prolific array of random thoughts zinging through their young minds as to what exactly constitutes good material for a life-long partner. This is somewhat exacerbated in China via the one-child policy - those one child's (?) may have a tendency towards selfishness (so look for those signs) in both their thought processes and their behaviors.
However, don't be fooled - most Chinese are quite adept at managing and discerning relationships - although their handling of relationships may sometimes be inept.
Discussions about marriage, meeting family, etc are all used to determine and gauge your level of commitment to a relationship - your openness to something deeper.
Hesitation may be construed as either caution or more likely, in the case of foreigners - you're just here for fun, for the "experience" - and in a year or two - poof...you're gone and they just invested a year or two into a potentially meaningless relationship, but they got the experience of dating a foreigner...ooooooooo.
On the other hand - it's also possible you're both approaching the same goal (marriage) from opposite spectrums. Men (regardless of nationality) can be blithering idiots in the art of subtlety - so they bluntly announce their intentions up front (ostensibly scaring off the window shoppers) - the brave hero concept.
Women on the other hand (regardless of nationality), tend to be more subtle in their approaches to relationships - they move more cautiously, testing and probing for danger, risk, and warning signs.
And then we have the other reasons for dating - for fun, for the mind-expanding life-enriching experience. All the trappings of a long-term or intimate relationship minus the commitment.
Many (scholars, historians, etc) bemoan the lack of culture in China today - but one behavioral trait has always been prevalent in Chinese society - relationships and relationship management - I would venture that guanxi is the iconic paragon of Chinese culture.